Did you know that people who occupy
themselves by keeping others company
or helping others are the ones that
actually need your company and help?
words of the great philosopher
who in sofar as i have seen,
has been silent for a while
whats new, o great one? o_o
With your body, open your mind,
Bring up the courage you have left behind.
To have this strength,
To keep the faith,
You can fight the odds
against your fate.
Just believe in yourself
For the dream is alive,
Don't hide your emotions,
Keep up your pride.
You can achieve success
In everything you do,
Just let yourself go
It's all up to YOU!
SUCCESS Copyright© RN & YG of NSW Australia
Saturday, September 18, 2004
all about love
If you have to love, don’t . . . if the one you’re going
to love doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love
must not fill a space in your existence. If you find
yourself thinking about someone, and his
sweetness, although you know he’s naturally
sweet to all girls, and his sweetness to you
doesn’t mean anything, so there’s no reason to
think about him. Don’t be assuming that his
checking out on you is a sign that he has a thing to
you. Don’t read between the lines of the sweet text
messages that he usually sends to you. Don’t
dwell on the memories you had with him, because
most definitely, he’s not dwelling on them either.
As much as you could, try not to fall for him. To fall
in love with that kind of guy will be an awful blow to
your vulnerable emotions. Because surprise,
surprise . . . he won’t reciprocate the way you feel
about him. He is “just sweet” remember?
If you’re eyeing on a classmate whom
your friend also likes, or should I say, love . . .
takes the backseat. Don’t squeeze yourself into
the picture. Boogie out of the scene that is
designated only for the two of them. At this point,
don’t take the risk of falling for the guy in the hope
that maybe it could be you who will get his
attention and not your friend who also have a thing
for him. That won’t work. Assuming that someone
loves you is the most stupid reason for propelling
oneself to love. So, don’t assume. And if it
happens, that you really don’t assume but you
have the urge to love the guy because whoa! . . .
he is a catch, try to control the feeling. The worst
thing that can happen is seeing your friend and
your prospect, together. You’re nothing but a
friend who buys tickets from his organization, just
for his sake. Bop yourself until you realize that you
have to let go of that classmate. Don’t skip your
class just because you hate to see them together.
Look at the gut in a different light, say, notice how
he doesn’t match up with your ideal guy standard
anyway, because he dresses so lousily, or he has
this bad taste in music or something like that.
Stop entertaining the thought that he’s so perfect
for you. He isn’t . . . okay?
And if there’s this guy who, well, was
once your dear boyfriend, at first was making you
feel that he wanted you back as his girl, and he’s
trying to woo you with his sweet words, but along
the way, it seems that he’s not that sincere with
his intentions anymore, then don’t give yourself the
hassle of falling for that darn guy all over again . . .
(oh man! Not again huh!) Don’t wait for his calls,
even though for the past two years of his life, he
has been calling you and trying to win your
affection. Never, ever stay awake late, staring at
your phone after 10pm, the time he usually calls,
because believe me, that phone won’t ring, and if
it will, it isn’t him anyway. Don’t dwell on those
moments when he sang “Can’t you help me” (ni
Usher) or the morning he called you up, which
came as a surprise to you, because he doesn’t
usually call at that time, just to wish you God’s
blessings for your midterm exams in the
afternoon. Okay, he was like that in the past, but
that was in the past. He doesn’t call anymore. Hell,
you waited for his call last night, but he didn’t,
right? Poor you. Don’t say to yourself, “I miss him”.
It hurts to wait, especially if that waiting is bound to
nothing.
Yes, love is the sweetest thing, I know.
It’s the greatest feeling. That is, if the one you love,
loves you back . . . there can’t be anything better
than that. But if the situation is either one of those
mentioned above, that’s a different story. As much
as possible, evade from those heart-wrenching
situations. Love is hard to control, but try anyway.
Give your best shot at falling out of love when you
already feel that you have to. You’re lucky enough
if you’ll sense the absurdity and pain of unrequited
love way ahead before it heads your way,
because it will spare you from going through a lot
of hell. All you have to do is simply occupy yourself
with a lot of things, have fun with your life. You’ll be
in love again, soon, and this time you will not get
hurt because He will feel the same for you. It may
not be now, but I’m sure it’ll come in due time.
Love is all about sacrifice, giving oneself freely
even with no strings attached, you say. Hell, I know
that! Love is not really supposed to hurt, but that’s
what makes love, love. Well, this is my stand and I
hope you’re with me.
posted on friendster by sandraIf you have to love, don’t . . . if the one you’re going
to love doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love
must not fill a space in your existence. If you find
yourself thinking about someone, and his
sweetness, although you know he’s naturally
sweet to all girls, and his sweetness to you
doesn’t mean anything, so there’s no reason to
think about him. Don’t be assuming that his
checking out on you is a sign that he has a thing to
you. Don’t read between the lines of the sweet text
messages that he usually sends to you. Don’t
dwell on the memories you had with him, because
most definitely, he’s not dwelling on them either.
As much as you could, try not to fall for him. To fall
in love with that kind of guy will be an awful blow to
your vulnerable emotions. Because surprise,
surprise . . . he won’t reciprocate the way you feel
about him. He is “just sweet” remember?
If you’re eyeing on a classmate whom
your friend also likes, or should I say, love . . .
takes the backseat. Don’t squeeze yourself into
the picture. Boogie out of the scene that is
designated only for the two of them. At this point,
don’t take the risk of falling for the guy in the hope
that maybe it could be you who will get his
attention and not your friend who also have a thing
for him. That won’t work. Assuming that someone
loves you is the most stupid reason for propelling
oneself to love. So, don’t assume. And if it
happens, that you really don’t assume but you
have the urge to love the guy because whoa! . . .
he is a catch, try to control the feeling. The worst
thing that can happen is seeing your friend and
your prospect, together. You’re nothing but a
friend who buys tickets from his organization, just
for his sake. Bop yourself until you realize that you
have to let go of that classmate. Don’t skip your
class just because you hate to see them together.
Look at the gut in a different light, say, notice how
he doesn’t match up with your ideal guy standard
anyway, because he dresses so lousily, or he has
this bad taste in music or something like that.
Stop entertaining the thought that he’s so perfect
for you. He isn’t . . . okay?
And if there’s this guy who, well, was
once your dear boyfriend, at first was making you
feel that he wanted you back as his girl, and he’s
trying to woo you with his sweet words, but along
the way, it seems that he’s not that sincere with
his intentions anymore, then don’t give yourself the
hassle of falling for that darn guy all over again . . .
(oh man! Not again huh!) Don’t wait for his calls,
even though for the past two years of his life, he
has been calling you and trying to win your
affection. Never, ever stay awake late, staring at
your phone after 10pm, the time he usually calls,
because believe me, that phone won’t ring, and if
it will, it isn’t him anyway. Don’t dwell on those
moments when he sang “Can’t you help me” (ni
Usher) or the morning he called you up, which
came as a surprise to you, because he doesn’t
usually call at that time, just to wish you God’s
blessings for your midterm exams in the
afternoon. Okay, he was like that in the past, but
that was in the past. He doesn’t call anymore. Hell,
you waited for his call last night, but he didn’t,
right? Poor you. Don’t say to yourself, “I miss him”.
It hurts to wait, especially if that waiting is bound to
nothing.
Yes, love is the sweetest thing, I know.
It’s the greatest feeling. That is, if the one you love,
loves you back . . . there can’t be anything better
than that. But if the situation is either one of those
mentioned above, that’s a different story. As much
as possible, evade from those heart-wrenching
situations. Love is hard to control, but try anyway.
Give your best shot at falling out of love when you
already feel that you have to. You’re lucky enough
if you’ll sense the absurdity and pain of unrequited
love way ahead before it heads your way,
because it will spare you from going through a lot
of hell. All you have to do is simply occupy yourself
with a lot of things, have fun with your life. You’ll be
in love again, soon, and this time you will not get
hurt because He will feel the same for you. It may
not be now, but I’m sure it’ll come in due time.
Love is all about sacrifice, giving oneself freely
even with no strings attached, you say. Hell, I know
that! Love is not really supposed to hurt, but that’s
what makes love, love. Well, this is my stand and I
hope you’re with me.
posted on friendster by sandra
to love doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love
must not fill a space in your existence. If you find
yourself thinking about someone, and his
sweetness, although you know he’s naturally
sweet to all girls, and his sweetness to you
doesn’t mean anything, so there’s no reason to
think about him. Don’t be assuming that his
checking out on you is a sign that he has a thing to
you. Don’t read between the lines of the sweet text
messages that he usually sends to you. Don’t
dwell on the memories you had with him, because
most definitely, he’s not dwelling on them either.
As much as you could, try not to fall for him. To fall
in love with that kind of guy will be an awful blow to
your vulnerable emotions. Because surprise,
surprise . . . he won’t reciprocate the way you feel
about him. He is “just sweet” remember?
If you’re eyeing on a classmate whom
your friend also likes, or should I say, love . . .
takes the backseat. Don’t squeeze yourself into
the picture. Boogie out of the scene that is
designated only for the two of them. At this point,
don’t take the risk of falling for the guy in the hope
that maybe it could be you who will get his
attention and not your friend who also have a thing
for him. That won’t work. Assuming that someone
loves you is the most stupid reason for propelling
oneself to love. So, don’t assume. And if it
happens, that you really don’t assume but you
have the urge to love the guy because whoa! . . .
he is a catch, try to control the feeling. The worst
thing that can happen is seeing your friend and
your prospect, together. You’re nothing but a
friend who buys tickets from his organization, just
for his sake. Bop yourself until you realize that you
have to let go of that classmate. Don’t skip your
class just because you hate to see them together.
Look at the gut in a different light, say, notice how
he doesn’t match up with your ideal guy standard
anyway, because he dresses so lousily, or he has
this bad taste in music or something like that.
Stop entertaining the thought that he’s so perfect
for you. He isn’t . . . okay?
And if there’s this guy who, well, was
once your dear boyfriend, at first was making you
feel that he wanted you back as his girl, and he’s
trying to woo you with his sweet words, but along
the way, it seems that he’s not that sincere with
his intentions anymore, then don’t give yourself the
hassle of falling for that darn guy all over again . . .
(oh man! Not again huh!) Don’t wait for his calls,
even though for the past two years of his life, he
has been calling you and trying to win your
affection. Never, ever stay awake late, staring at
your phone after 10pm, the time he usually calls,
because believe me, that phone won’t ring, and if
it will, it isn’t him anyway. Don’t dwell on those
moments when he sang “Can’t you help me” (ni
Usher) or the morning he called you up, which
came as a surprise to you, because he doesn’t
usually call at that time, just to wish you God’s
blessings for your midterm exams in the
afternoon. Okay, he was like that in the past, but
that was in the past. He doesn’t call anymore. Hell,
you waited for his call last night, but he didn’t,
right? Poor you. Don’t say to yourself, “I miss him”.
It hurts to wait, especially if that waiting is bound to
nothing.
Yes, love is the sweetest thing, I know.
It’s the greatest feeling. That is, if the one you love,
loves you back . . . there can’t be anything better
than that. But if the situation is either one of those
mentioned above, that’s a different story. As much
as possible, evade from those heart-wrenching
situations. Love is hard to control, but try anyway.
Give your best shot at falling out of love when you
already feel that you have to. You’re lucky enough
if you’ll sense the absurdity and pain of unrequited
love way ahead before it heads your way,
because it will spare you from going through a lot
of hell. All you have to do is simply occupy yourself
with a lot of things, have fun with your life. You’ll be
in love again, soon, and this time you will not get
hurt because He will feel the same for you. It may
not be now, but I’m sure it’ll come in due time.
Love is all about sacrifice, giving oneself freely
even with no strings attached, you say. Hell, I know
that! Love is not really supposed to hurt, but that’s
what makes love, love. Well, this is my stand and I
hope you’re with me.
posted on friendster by sandraIf you have to love, don’t . . . if the one you’re going
to love doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love
must not fill a space in your existence. If you find
yourself thinking about someone, and his
sweetness, although you know he’s naturally
sweet to all girls, and his sweetness to you
doesn’t mean anything, so there’s no reason to
think about him. Don’t be assuming that his
checking out on you is a sign that he has a thing to
you. Don’t read between the lines of the sweet text
messages that he usually sends to you. Don’t
dwell on the memories you had with him, because
most definitely, he’s not dwelling on them either.
As much as you could, try not to fall for him. To fall
in love with that kind of guy will be an awful blow to
your vulnerable emotions. Because surprise,
surprise . . . he won’t reciprocate the way you feel
about him. He is “just sweet” remember?
If you’re eyeing on a classmate whom
your friend also likes, or should I say, love . . .
takes the backseat. Don’t squeeze yourself into
the picture. Boogie out of the scene that is
designated only for the two of them. At this point,
don’t take the risk of falling for the guy in the hope
that maybe it could be you who will get his
attention and not your friend who also have a thing
for him. That won’t work. Assuming that someone
loves you is the most stupid reason for propelling
oneself to love. So, don’t assume. And if it
happens, that you really don’t assume but you
have the urge to love the guy because whoa! . . .
he is a catch, try to control the feeling. The worst
thing that can happen is seeing your friend and
your prospect, together. You’re nothing but a
friend who buys tickets from his organization, just
for his sake. Bop yourself until you realize that you
have to let go of that classmate. Don’t skip your
class just because you hate to see them together.
Look at the gut in a different light, say, notice how
he doesn’t match up with your ideal guy standard
anyway, because he dresses so lousily, or he has
this bad taste in music or something like that.
Stop entertaining the thought that he’s so perfect
for you. He isn’t . . . okay?
And if there’s this guy who, well, was
once your dear boyfriend, at first was making you
feel that he wanted you back as his girl, and he’s
trying to woo you with his sweet words, but along
the way, it seems that he’s not that sincere with
his intentions anymore, then don’t give yourself the
hassle of falling for that darn guy all over again . . .
(oh man! Not again huh!) Don’t wait for his calls,
even though for the past two years of his life, he
has been calling you and trying to win your
affection. Never, ever stay awake late, staring at
your phone after 10pm, the time he usually calls,
because believe me, that phone won’t ring, and if
it will, it isn’t him anyway. Don’t dwell on those
moments when he sang “Can’t you help me” (ni
Usher) or the morning he called you up, which
came as a surprise to you, because he doesn’t
usually call at that time, just to wish you God’s
blessings for your midterm exams in the
afternoon. Okay, he was like that in the past, but
that was in the past. He doesn’t call anymore. Hell,
you waited for his call last night, but he didn’t,
right? Poor you. Don’t say to yourself, “I miss him”.
It hurts to wait, especially if that waiting is bound to
nothing.
Yes, love is the sweetest thing, I know.
It’s the greatest feeling. That is, if the one you love,
loves you back . . . there can’t be anything better
than that. But if the situation is either one of those
mentioned above, that’s a different story. As much
as possible, evade from those heart-wrenching
situations. Love is hard to control, but try anyway.
Give your best shot at falling out of love when you
already feel that you have to. You’re lucky enough
if you’ll sense the absurdity and pain of unrequited
love way ahead before it heads your way,
because it will spare you from going through a lot
of hell. All you have to do is simply occupy yourself
with a lot of things, have fun with your life. You’ll be
in love again, soon, and this time you will not get
hurt because He will feel the same for you. It may
not be now, but I’m sure it’ll come in due time.
Love is all about sacrifice, giving oneself freely
even with no strings attached, you say. Hell, I know
that! Love is not really supposed to hurt, but that’s
what makes love, love. Well, this is my stand and I
hope you’re with me.
posted on friendster by sandra
Thursday, September 16, 2004
sometimes i just dont understand you
but thats not saying much
most times, i dont even understand myself
but still,
its hard to always question if you did something wrong
its hard not knowing how to place yourself
its easier maybe to be hated
than not know if you are or not
at least theres certainty in knowing
and at least,
you know where you stand
its hard to see
that sometimes you are no one
sometimes you are servant
sometimes you are important
and sometimes you are hated
who am i really?
to you?
scared as i am of knowing what could be the truth
i would rather be hurt knowing
than be hurting not knowing at all
but thats not saying much
most times, i dont even understand myself
but still,
its hard to always question if you did something wrong
its hard not knowing how to place yourself
its easier maybe to be hated
than not know if you are or not
at least theres certainty in knowing
and at least,
you know where you stand
its hard to see
that sometimes you are no one
sometimes you are servant
sometimes you are important
and sometimes you are hated
who am i really?
to you?
scared as i am of knowing what could be the truth
i would rather be hurt knowing
than be hurting not knowing at all
complicated love
THIS IS WHAT A GIRL TELLS A GUY
If you see me walking the road with someone else,
It's not because I like his accompany...
Its because you're not brave enough to walk
beside me.
If you hear me talking about him all the time
Its not because he pleases me
Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat
If you feel me falling with someone new
Its not because I love him..
But because you're not there to catch me fall
If you feel lost, I am nowhere
I don't know where the road is going
Are we gonna cross each other's path
Or just completely turn around?..
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound
Don't let me walk with him,
It's you I want to walk with..
Don't let me talk of him,
it's you I want to talk with..
Don't let me fall for him,
It's you I want to fall in love with..
"HOW THE GUY REPLY" ??..
When you thought I wasn't brave enough to walk
beside you
I was behind you every step of the way
Still filled with awe because of the beauty that
stand before me
When you thought I was too deaf to hear your
heartbeat
I didn't want to assume anything
And I was afraid to loose our friendship
When you thought I wasn't there to catch you,
It was because you never gave me the chance
You never reached the bottom,
you've already grabbed a branch
If you feel like you are nowhere,
I am lost too
I don't know where the road is going
Are we just going to turn around,
Or are we gonna cross each other's path?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?
Don't let me walk alone
I want to walk by your side
Don't let me talk of something else
It's you I want to talk with
Don't let me fall for someone else
It's you I want to fall in love with.
WHEN I SAW YOU...
I WAS AFRAID TO TALK TO YOU...
WHEN I TALKED TO YOU...
I WAS AFRAID TO HOLD YOU...
WHEN I HOLD YOU...
I WAS AFRAID TO LOVE YOU...
NOW THAT I LOVE YOU ...
I'M AFRAID TO LOSE YOU...
YESTERDAY IS HISTORY...
TOMORROW IS A MYSTERY...
AND TODAY IS A GIFT...
THAT'S WHY IT'S CALLED A PRESENT...
SOMETIMES LOVE HURTS...
BUT IF IT DOESN'T HURT...
THEN IT ISN'T LOVE...
HOLD ON TO THE PERSON U LOVE...
BEFORE THEY SLIP AWAY...
OR ELSE U CAN NEVER GET THEM BACK...
I WAS BORN WHEN YOU KISSED ME...
AND I DIED WHEN YOU LEFT ME...
BUT I LIVED FOR THE TIME U LOVED ME...
UNTIL THERE WAS YOU,
I CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP...
WHILE I HAD YOU, I FELL ASLEEP WITH A
GENTLE SMILE ON MY FACE...
BEFORE I LOST YOU, I WORRIED MYSELF
TO SLEEP...
NOW THAT I KNOW UR GONE,
I SIT UP AT NIGHT, WAITING FOR U TO
COME BACK....
If you see me walking the road with someone else,
It's not because I like his accompany...
Its because you're not brave enough to walk
beside me.
If you hear me talking about him all the time
Its not because he pleases me
Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat
If you feel me falling with someone new
Its not because I love him..
But because you're not there to catch me fall
If you feel lost, I am nowhere
I don't know where the road is going
Are we gonna cross each other's path
Or just completely turn around?..
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound
Don't let me walk with him,
It's you I want to walk with..
Don't let me talk of him,
it's you I want to talk with..
Don't let me fall for him,
It's you I want to fall in love with..
"HOW THE GUY REPLY" ??..
When you thought I wasn't brave enough to walk
beside you
I was behind you every step of the way
Still filled with awe because of the beauty that
stand before me
When you thought I was too deaf to hear your
heartbeat
I didn't want to assume anything
And I was afraid to loose our friendship
When you thought I wasn't there to catch you,
It was because you never gave me the chance
You never reached the bottom,
you've already grabbed a branch
If you feel like you are nowhere,
I am lost too
I don't know where the road is going
Are we just going to turn around,
Or are we gonna cross each other's path?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?
Don't let me walk alone
I want to walk by your side
Don't let me talk of something else
It's you I want to talk with
Don't let me fall for someone else
It's you I want to fall in love with.
WHEN I SAW YOU...
I WAS AFRAID TO TALK TO YOU...
WHEN I TALKED TO YOU...
I WAS AFRAID TO HOLD YOU...
WHEN I HOLD YOU...
I WAS AFRAID TO LOVE YOU...
NOW THAT I LOVE YOU ...
I'M AFRAID TO LOSE YOU...
YESTERDAY IS HISTORY...
TOMORROW IS A MYSTERY...
AND TODAY IS A GIFT...
THAT'S WHY IT'S CALLED A PRESENT...
SOMETIMES LOVE HURTS...
BUT IF IT DOESN'T HURT...
THEN IT ISN'T LOVE...
HOLD ON TO THE PERSON U LOVE...
BEFORE THEY SLIP AWAY...
OR ELSE U CAN NEVER GET THEM BACK...
I WAS BORN WHEN YOU KISSED ME...
AND I DIED WHEN YOU LEFT ME...
BUT I LIVED FOR THE TIME U LOVED ME...
UNTIL THERE WAS YOU,
I CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP...
WHILE I HAD YOU, I FELL ASLEEP WITH A
GENTLE SMILE ON MY FACE...
BEFORE I LOST YOU, I WORRIED MYSELF
TO SLEEP...
NOW THAT I KNOW UR GONE,
I SIT UP AT NIGHT, WAITING FOR U TO
COME BACK....
Thursday, September 09, 2004
at long last
so, after almost two weeks of no posts,
i can finally get back on blogger.
i dont get what was wrong with it in the first place,
but anyway...
so much has happened since i last posted,
and more before that.
but many things just cant be spoken
and somethings are passe
whats left to speak of
without hurting the people around you?
all i can say is that
it has been emotionally draining
a rollercoaster ride of unimaginable proportions
i wish there was a way to explain all of this
but there really isnt
and anyway, if i were to post it all here,
i doubt you would still understand.
but fact remains that trouble is brewing
and like volcanoes waiting to erupt
may it finally all explode
so we may be over this and move on
with the rest of our lives
rather than always waiting in fear
uncertainty, i believe causes many of our problems
and the only remedy would be to
dispose of this tangle of lies, faces and masks
that hide the true feelings within us
may we all survive this
and GROW from it.
i can finally get back on blogger.
i dont get what was wrong with it in the first place,
but anyway...
so much has happened since i last posted,
and more before that.
but many things just cant be spoken
and somethings are passe
whats left to speak of
without hurting the people around you?
all i can say is that
it has been emotionally draining
a rollercoaster ride of unimaginable proportions
i wish there was a way to explain all of this
but there really isnt
and anyway, if i were to post it all here,
i doubt you would still understand.
but fact remains that trouble is brewing
and like volcanoes waiting to erupt
may it finally all explode
so we may be over this and move on
with the rest of our lives
rather than always waiting in fear
uncertainty, i believe causes many of our problems
and the only remedy would be to
dispose of this tangle of lies, faces and masks
that hide the true feelings within us
may we all survive this
and GROW from it.
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