all about love

If you have to love, don’t . . . if the one you’re going
to love doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love
must not fill a space in your existence. If you find
yourself thinking about someone, and his
sweetness, although you know he’s naturally
sweet to all girls, and his sweetness to you
doesn’t mean anything, so there’s no reason to
think about him. Don’t be assuming that his
checking out on you is a sign that he has a thing to
you. Don’t read between the lines of the sweet text
messages that he usually sends to you. Don’t
dwell on the memories you had with him, because
most definitely, he’s not dwelling on them either.
As much as you could, try not to fall for him. To fall
in love with that kind of guy will be an awful blow to
your vulnerable emotions. Because surprise,
surprise . . . he won’t reciprocate the way you feel
about him. He is “just sweet” remember?
If you’re eyeing on a classmate whom
your friend also likes, or should I say, love . . .
takes the backseat. Don’t squeeze yourself into
the picture. Boogie out of the scene that is
designated only for the two of them. At this point,
don’t take the risk of falling for the guy in the hope
that maybe it could be you who will get his
attention and not your friend who also have a thing
for him. That won’t work. Assuming that someone
loves you is the most stupid reason for propelling
oneself to love. So, don’t assume. And if it
happens, that you really don’t assume but you
have the urge to love the guy because whoa! . . .
he is a catch, try to control the feeling. The worst
thing that can happen is seeing your friend and
your prospect, together. You’re nothing but a
friend who buys tickets from his organization, just
for his sake. Bop yourself until you realize that you
have to let go of that classmate. Don’t skip your
class just because you hate to see them together.
Look at the gut in a different light, say, notice how
he doesn’t match up with your ideal guy standard
anyway, because he dresses so lousily, or he has
this bad taste in music or something like that.
Stop entertaining the thought that he’s so perfect
for you. He isn’t . . . okay?
And if there’s this guy who, well, was
once your dear boyfriend, at first was making you
feel that he wanted you back as his girl, and he’s
trying to woo you with his sweet words, but along
the way, it seems that he’s not that sincere with
his intentions anymore, then don’t give yourself the
hassle of falling for that darn guy all over again . . .
(oh man! Not again huh!) Don’t wait for his calls,
even though for the past two years of his life, he
has been calling you and trying to win your
affection. Never, ever stay awake late, staring at
your phone after 10pm, the time he usually calls,
because believe me, that phone won’t ring, and if
it will, it isn’t him anyway. Don’t dwell on those
moments when he sang “Can’t you help me” (ni
Usher) or the morning he called you up, which
came as a surprise to you, because he doesn’t
usually call at that time, just to wish you God’s
blessings for your midterm exams in the
afternoon. Okay, he was like that in the past, but
that was in the past. He doesn’t call anymore. Hell,
you waited for his call last night, but he didn’t,
right? Poor you. Don’t say to yourself, “I miss him”.
It hurts to wait, especially if that waiting is bound to
nothing.
Yes, love is the sweetest thing, I know.
It’s the greatest feeling. That is, if the one you love,
loves you back . . . there can’t be anything better
than that. But if the situation is either one of those
mentioned above, that’s a different story. As much
as possible, evade from those heart-wrenching
situations. Love is hard to control, but try anyway.
Give your best shot at falling out of love when you
already feel that you have to. You’re lucky enough
if you’ll sense the absurdity and pain of unrequited
love way ahead before it heads your way,
because it will spare you from going through a lot
of hell. All you have to do is simply occupy yourself
with a lot of things, have fun with your life. You’ll be
in love again, soon, and this time you will not get
hurt because He will feel the same for you. It may
not be now, but I’m sure it’ll come in due time.
Love is all about sacrifice, giving oneself freely
even with no strings attached, you say. Hell, I know
that! Love is not really supposed to hurt, but that’s
what makes love, love. Well, this is my stand and I
hope you’re with me.

posted on friendster by sandraIf you have to love, don’t . . . if the one you’re going
to love doesn’t love you back. Unrequited love
must not fill a space in your existence. If you find
yourself thinking about someone, and his
sweetness, although you know he’s naturally
sweet to all girls, and his sweetness to you
doesn’t mean anything, so there’s no reason to
think about him. Don’t be assuming that his
checking out on you is a sign that he has a thing to
you. Don’t read between the lines of the sweet text
messages that he usually sends to you. Don’t
dwell on the memories you had with him, because
most definitely, he’s not dwelling on them either.
As much as you could, try not to fall for him. To fall
in love with that kind of guy will be an awful blow to
your vulnerable emotions. Because surprise,
surprise . . . he won’t reciprocate the way you feel
about him. He is “just sweet” remember?
If you’re eyeing on a classmate whom
your friend also likes, or should I say, love . . .
takes the backseat. Don’t squeeze yourself into
the picture. Boogie out of the scene that is
designated only for the two of them. At this point,
don’t take the risk of falling for the guy in the hope
that maybe it could be you who will get his
attention and not your friend who also have a thing
for him. That won’t work. Assuming that someone
loves you is the most stupid reason for propelling
oneself to love. So, don’t assume. And if it
happens, that you really don’t assume but you
have the urge to love the guy because whoa! . . .
he is a catch, try to control the feeling. The worst
thing that can happen is seeing your friend and
your prospect, together. You’re nothing but a
friend who buys tickets from his organization, just
for his sake. Bop yourself until you realize that you
have to let go of that classmate. Don’t skip your
class just because you hate to see them together.
Look at the gut in a different light, say, notice how
he doesn’t match up with your ideal guy standard
anyway, because he dresses so lousily, or he has
this bad taste in music or something like that.
Stop entertaining the thought that he’s so perfect
for you. He isn’t . . . okay?
And if there’s this guy who, well, was
once your dear boyfriend, at first was making you
feel that he wanted you back as his girl, and he’s
trying to woo you with his sweet words, but along
the way, it seems that he’s not that sincere with
his intentions anymore, then don’t give yourself the
hassle of falling for that darn guy all over again . . .
(oh man! Not again huh!) Don’t wait for his calls,
even though for the past two years of his life, he
has been calling you and trying to win your
affection. Never, ever stay awake late, staring at
your phone after 10pm, the time he usually calls,
because believe me, that phone won’t ring, and if
it will, it isn’t him anyway. Don’t dwell on those
moments when he sang “Can’t you help me” (ni
Usher) or the morning he called you up, which
came as a surprise to you, because he doesn’t
usually call at that time, just to wish you God’s
blessings for your midterm exams in the
afternoon. Okay, he was like that in the past, but
that was in the past. He doesn’t call anymore. Hell,
you waited for his call last night, but he didn’t,
right? Poor you. Don’t say to yourself, “I miss him”.
It hurts to wait, especially if that waiting is bound to
nothing.
Yes, love is the sweetest thing, I know.
It’s the greatest feeling. That is, if the one you love,
loves you back . . . there can’t be anything better
than that. But if the situation is either one of those
mentioned above, that’s a different story. As much
as possible, evade from those heart-wrenching
situations. Love is hard to control, but try anyway.
Give your best shot at falling out of love when you
already feel that you have to. You’re lucky enough
if you’ll sense the absurdity and pain of unrequited
love way ahead before it heads your way,
because it will spare you from going through a lot
of hell. All you have to do is simply occupy yourself
with a lot of things, have fun with your life. You’ll be
in love again, soon, and this time you will not get
hurt because He will feel the same for you. It may
not be now, but I’m sure it’ll come in due time.
Love is all about sacrifice, giving oneself freely
even with no strings attached, you say. Hell, I know
that! Love is not really supposed to hurt, but that’s
what makes love, love. Well, this is my stand and I
hope you’re with me.

posted on friendster by sandra